| Selfless Love cannot be studied, researched, analyzed, etc. Just as we cannot really study, research, analyze, etc. God. When we study, research, analyze, etc., we use the mind. The mind is finite and limited. God and Selfless Love is infinite and limitless. Finite can never understand the infinite. The lower can never understand the higher. When we choose Selflessness, we automatically and gradually start cancelling bad Karma. The more Selfless we become, the more bad Karma we cancel. When we are selfish, we accumulate more bad Karma on top of the bad karma we already have. We are not cancelling or balancing existing bad Karma, but we are adding more bad Karma. |
| The most common excuse is that we do not understand what Selfless Love so we cannot choose to be Selfless. We always want others to love us unconditionally so we are not being honest when we say we cannot or do not know how to love others unconditionally. We even say we do not understand Unconditional Love or it is too hard to love unconditionally. We also say when we love unconditionally, others will take advantage of us. We want others to love us unconditionally but we do not want to love others unconditionally. Please be honest to ourselves. We are pretending not to understand Selfless Love so we can remain selfish. We think we have more to gain by remaining selfish. Unfortunately selfishness only guarantee self destruction. Anything we gain right now is a temporary illusion. All the physical world achievements (fame, fortune, etc.) are absolutely meaningless. |