| It is true that Selfless Love is giving and sacrificing. All of our perception of loss is just a state of mind. It is just an illusion. We do not really gain anything because when we die we cannot take anything with us not even our own physical body. The physical body gets cremated or buried and returns back to Earth. We accept the illusion of loss from the mind because this illusion allows us to pretend and make excuses. If we are honest to ourselves we would not fall for the illusion of loss. But we actually embrace the illusion of loss, so that we can use it as a supportive argument for selfishness. The atom consists of 99% of nothingness, so that means 99% of the physical world is nothingness. Whatever we gain in the physical is just nothingness. |
| We falsely believe that selfishness will make us happy. We want to be happy so we choose selfish. However, selfish only makes us unhappy because of fear. Only Selflessness can make us happy because no fear. Therefore, we are actually approaching life in a distorted way. We might think it is unfair that selfishness will lead to eventual self destruction or selfishness will lead to bad Karma. This is a very dishonest thinking. The only reason why we think this way is because we want to choose selfish without any consequences. We are unfair not the Great Divine Law of Karma. We never think we are unfair when we are selfish but as soon as we are held responsible for our choices, we start crying that the Divine is unfair. We are being hypocrites. |